We didn’t do a gender reveal with our first but my close friend offered to make us a gender reveal cake if we wanted it. I am wondering if a genders reveal zoom party for our second is worth it or if it seems like showboating (others in my family and friend group are trying to get pregnant right now). I don’t regret not having one with my first, we weren’t even planning a baby shower for my first until my family surprised me with one, but since it is offered- this could be one way to get our families involved since we definitely won’t be seeing many of them before the baby. Thoughts? Pros and cons?

Pic of my first little who is suspicious of being a big sister.