I need some advice on what you ladies would do if you were in my shoes!

It’s gonna be along post to bare with me lol I feel the need to explain the whole situation

My fiancé and I keep going back and forth about baby #2. We definitely want another that’s forsure but it’s the timing that we’re not sure about.

Currently we live in the city but we’re moving with my parents/grandparents. I say it that way cause they’re technically both to me. My grandparents adopted me so they’re like my parents. Anyways the reason we decide to live with him is cause currently we live on top of them. Duplex. They have decided to sell their property and move into the suburbs like 45 mins away and asked us if we wanted to live with them or else they’d be moving back to their home country (Portugal) which I in no way wanted cause I mean I’ve been with them 26 years and always promised that when it came time to take care of them I would.

Obviously I discussed it with my fiancé and he’s 100% on board with the situation. So we sold and bought a newly built semi detached that will be ready to move in between January-March 2021.

So we always wanted baby #2 to be close to our little boy. Our plans were to start trying soon like November/December soon but now with the whole moving process we don’t know.

Our options are either go ahead and bite the bullet and start trying and hopefully have a newborn by the time our little one turns 2 or we wait until we’re settled in and enjoy the new home a little and then tart trying right after our little one turns 2. We’re stuck in the middle.

Any advice on what you would do would be helpful.

Thanks so much for reading my long ass post lol I appreciate it ♥️