Should I wait until Anatomy scan to send November shower invites?

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My friend and I decided on November 14th for the virtual shower but now I am worried about sending out invites prior to my anatomy scan on October 8th.

But I also want to give people enough time to mail things since we are out of state. I keep reading people’s discoveries on their anatomy scan and late losses... my genetic tests were all normal and I have no complications this far but now I feel uncertain.

Any advice?? FTM here btw.