Is looks everything ?

Hello,

I just want to know is looks everything? There’s this guy who is super sweet. He doesn’t have a job yet because he is still in college but he served in the army for 11 years and he smokes weed🤮 but she’s super sweet and nice. I don’t like the smell of any smoke. I don’t know what to do🤦‍♀️ we had sex and it was the worst i have ever had 😭 but he’s so sweet, loving and caring.