So, I'm feeling conflicted. We are expecting baby #3, but this is our first girl. My neighbor/friend has offered to through me a shower/sprinkle since this one's a girl. With my first son, I had the big shower and with the second son we didn't do a shower. As much as I'd love a shower, I don't want my family and friends that attended my first one 9 years ago to feel taxed to be invited to another one. Thoughts? Games? Just chat? Help! ;)