My husband and I have been married for 3 years. It’s been very rocky, and in the past few weeks and months, we have seriously discussed divorcing. But he has made it very clear that he doesn’t want to move out, and is willing to change. He has made some changes, although things are changing slower than I’d like. Both of us are very serious about marriage and children, and aren’t the types to give up on anything easily. We’ve been ttc, I’ve told people that we’ve considered divorcing, and they seem relieved, and are like: “well, at least you didn’t end up having any kids with him, which adds more hardship”. It kind of annoys me that everyone was rooting for us to break up. Anyways, just wondering who has come from the brink of splitting up/divorce, and then ended up staying together? There’s been no abuse, just to clarify.