D&C what’s normal?

Question

So I had a missed miscarriage, my baby didn’t make it past 6 weeks and I had a D&C friday and would be 12 weeks today 😔! 
I lost a lost of blood in theatre and am not bleeding at all now it’s only been 3 days and I stopped bleeding the day of! 
Basically had some questions and can’t get a straight answer online so wondered if any one on here would be able to help me!
When will my bump go? I still look 12 weeks pregnant and I’m really struggling with it! 
How quick did people try again? We know we are going to! Nothing is going to stop us! Just unsure when it’s safe? 
What memory boxes/items did people buy? I want to remember my little baby in a positive way and not just in my heart! 👼🏼💔

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First off im so sorry for ur loss 😞 i also suffered my first missed mc in april this year my baby stopped growing at 6 w 4 d and i was suppose to be 9 weeks .. had a D&C 2 days later ... hardest week of my life .. so im praying for u! After the bleeding lasted about a week and then it took 6 LONG weeks for AF to return ... if af would have showed i would have started to try again immediately but i waited till my first period ... my cycles changed from a normal 28 to a 34 day and every month it went lower and now finally these last 2 months im at a 28 day. Im currently still ttc 🤞after my d&c i didnt bleed much it wasnt heavy .. i guess it depends on how ur doc did but be easy on ur self .. rest .. cry .. feel this .. and keep trying .. dont give up! U will be blessed ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Honestly my bloating (its sometimes just bloating that early) went away before we knew about our mmc. I assumed it was just the bloating going down because I’ve seen many people say that they couldn’t wait for their bloating to go down and that it usually goes down 9-10 weeks. 
The doctor when I was getting the ultrasound that showed the loss said there’s no waiting needed in general with miscarriage. It’s whenever the couple is ready. My OB office said they usually advise people who have D&C to wait two weeks before inserting anything into the vagina. And if you’re still bleeding at two weeks they advise not to engage in any sexual activity until the bleeding stops (They said to lower the risk of infection).
We haven’t done anything at this point. We talked about two things we want to do.

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I am so sorry for your loss!!! 
I lost my baby girl last year at almost 15 weeks.. she stopped growing at 13.
After the d&c I started having milk and no one had prepared me for that...
It’s heartbreaking and no one really has answers.... I am currently 19 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby girl and honestly I am scared every single day that goes by still... I try not to but it’s hard...
Even after a year I didn’t feel ready but it happened and I’m so thankful ❤️ 
Allow your self to grief the loss of your baby.. it is ok to cry!! Let it out! There is going to be good days and bad days but you will pull through this! 
Just trust God and it will happen when you least expect it! 🙏 
Msg me if you need to talk to someone.

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I’m so sorry about your loss💔 I had a miscarriage and had to have a D&C November 2019. It took 5 weeks for my period to come back. Started trying again in January and got pregnant on first month ttc. My rainbow baby is now a now a week old and healthy💙

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I am unfortunately going through this right now. Found out yesterday that I miscarried and am scheduled for a d&c tomorrow. I don’t have any advice I’m not sure what to expect but just wanted you to know my heart goes out to you ❤️ wishing you the best!

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So sorry hun. I had a d&c July first I was 11 weeks but my twins passed away at 8 1/2 weeks. It took about 2 weeks for my belly to go back to normal. 
We started trying after my first period, after 2 cycles we’re currently expecting our rainbow. Good luck hun ❤️

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God bless momma ❤️❤️ so sorry.

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