No negativity. Please don't be rude. I'm just looking for help.

"HaVe A bEdTiMe RoUtInE, pUt ThEm To BeD aT tHe SaMe TiMe EvErY nIgHt," none of it f*cking works. I've done everything I've been told, and yet here I am, up at 2am with my 10 month old, trying to get him to sleep. I always put him to sleep at 8pm, which i did tonight. He fell asleep quickly, I put him in his crib, and he was fine... until around 11. He woke up so I changed him and put him back in the crib to go back to sleep. Then he got fussy. I tried singing to him and reading to him, I tried giving him a bottle thinking that might be the problem. Nothing. He seemed to calm down when I was holding him, so I picked him up and sat in my bed with him, where he is currently cooing to himself loudly, bouncing around in my lap, and slapping me. It's adorable, but man I want to be sleeping right now lol. What am I doing wrong? What should I do when he wakes up in the middle of the night? Why does he have so much energy out of nowhere and what can I do to help him? I'm exhausted and I feel like a failure. A 10 month old shouldn't be waking up in the middle of the night in the first place 😔