Okay me and my boyfriend have been together for almost five years now. We both have a child by someone else. There's been no talk about any type of commitment. He thinks I'm just wanting to rush into marriage, when I dont! I'd like to be engaged for a while. Well when I start my period it's like my head never stops thinking of crap. Well I was already emotional from starting yesterday, he then picks an argument that I text him too much at work! Really I can't even text an " I love you"? Then he wants to throw in my face that I just sit on my ass pushing buttons at work. (I'm a book keeper at a furniture store) and he's got a hard labour job. Really well its funny me sitting on my ass helps him pay these bills!! Just so annoyed with him! Blah, rant over.