My boyfriend told me during an argument about three weeks ago that he feels like I'm way too independent. I told him I would try to need him more since he feels that way and we worked it all out. 

Fast forward to last night, we were having dinner with seperate parts of the family because he was at a church thing with his dad. I told him how I wasn't feeling good and that I really needed to him to come over after because I'm not okay. He was complaining about having too long of a day and said he wouldn't come. I took my temperature and I had a fever and I was an emotional wreck. He fell asleep and did not come over and was aware that I was sick. Is that like a dick move or is it okay since he said he was really sorry, he just has work the next day. I feel so alone, and not okay because he couldn't come see me just for a little bit to make sure I was okay after saying he wants me to need him more and I actually did need him. 😞