How do you know if you have fallen out of love / don't lobe someone romantically anymore? What's the difference between this and just having a rough patch? I feel like I can't even tell anymore. I know I care about him as a person of course but I just don't feel that romance or what warm feeling. Together 11 years, 6 married. I wish I could explain the feeling better... I just don't know how to know if it's over.