My fiancé is proving more and more how irresponsible he is with money and life in general.

All he is, is empty promises. He promises to get an education, but almost 3 years later still hasn’t made a valuable effort. He promises to save his money, hasn’t saved a dime. And he promises to be a nicer man to me, but takes his anger out on me.

We have a 1 year old son and I’m almost due with our soon to be daughter, and I just don’t know if I can be with him anymore...

He keeps leaving jobs, he is always behind on bills, we have been going to the food pantry to keep food on the table and relying on my job to keep us afloat and I can’t do it anymore...

I want to leave him because I need a man in my life who is a team mate and not empty baggage... I need someone who will build themselves and be more self motivated in life...

I personally believe I should leave, but I don’t know how.

I know every couple struggles and I’m fine with struggling, but with the intention of growing. I don’t want to be stuck living penny to penny with a man who only takes his anger out on me at the end of the day and cant be thankful to have someone supporting him despite his downfalls...

How do i leave?

If you believe I should stay, how do I make it work?

Please, I need guidance more than ever.