I just started dating this guy and he asked me if my male friends tried “hooking” up, I said yes. He then tells me that’s what a man thinks of, he then says “yeah my friend I’ve known since she was 10, she’s so beautiful now. If I were to see her out at a bar, I’d definitely try something, my mom would get so mad at me for thinking this way of her”... I get it, there’s a lot of beautiful people in the world, I just can’t believe he was telling me this. I instantly felt insecure and disrespected, thoughts?

Am I overreacting? How’d you feel?