Today my husband and I had the day to ourselves. I have been extremely depressed and completely exhausted so we took the day to lay on the couch and watch movies. ALL day he was touching my breasts, showing me his dick, talking about sex, texting me porn gifs, and planning our sex for that night. I asked him multiple times to stop. When I’d tell him to stop he would for a little bit but then he’d just go back to it again. As the day went on I just really felt it wearing down on me. Finally I ended up in tears because I just felt so overwhelmed with his expectations for us to have this amazing porn-like sex. All I wanted to do was relax. I have been so dang sad and depressed lately. And it just seemed like he wasn’t truly interested in spending time with me. He didn’t have much to say to me unless it was sexual. This started at 10am and went on until I cried about it at 9pm. When I told him how overwhelmed and exhausted I was feeling he got defensive. I was like “I’m not blaming you. You already know I’m depressed. I’m just trying to tell you how I’m feeling”. At that point he just stopped talking to me for a bit so I sat and cried silently. Finally he told me to come here. (He was across the living room.) I didn’t move at first and he said come here so I can hold you. I asked him if he could come to me and he refused. He insisted I come to him and got a little upset with me for “not wanting” him.... I just wanted him to come to me to comfort me... I finally did go to him and snuggled him for a bit and then he went to bed and went to sleep. He planned this whole night for us to relax, have drinks, watch movies, etc. and I thought it was because I’m so depressed but as soon as I shut sex out of the equation he basically bailed on me so now I’m laying in the dark all alone and I just feel so damn sad and upset. I tried so hard to tell him how I was feeling without putting any blame on him and it just felt like he made my depression about him. I was tiptoeing around my own feelings trying to not upset him. I feel like I didn’t even get to fully explain how I’m feeling and I’m just really upset about it. Am I crazy or what? Would you be upset? My husband is a sweet man but i just feel like he’s so very wrong for this...