Would this upset you?

My SO and I have been together for 5 years. Our daughter was born last December. I had a rough pregnancy that made me unable to work, so since about 20 weeks pregnant until now, he has been the only one working. Once the 6 weeks were up and I was cleared to work, we agreed that it just made more sense for me to stay home since basically my entire check would go towards daycare anyway. Up until our daughter was 5 months old, he did nothing but go to work, come home, smoke weed, and sleep. I got zero help with housework or our daughter, even on his days off. It got to the point where my daughter and I moved out. We were gone about a month before moving back in. Since we’ve been back, he’s been doing so much better about helping with our daughter. I have no complaints there anymore.

A couple weeks ago, he brought up the possibility of me getting a part time job three days a week on his days off. I’m actually looking forward to working again. That was no argument, I started applying to jobs right away. The issue is, he keeps saying he wants to quit his job so he can stay home with our daughter all the time. His exact words are “you haven’t had to work at all since she’s been born. It’s my turn to stay home with her while you work.” He claims that he understands how hard it is to be a stay at home parent and he doesn’t think it’s any easier than a real job, so I don’t know why it rubs me the wrong way so much. Am I being unreasonable? Is it “my turn” to have a job? I guess it just bothers me because he acts like we need a second income so bad (we don’t, he makes way more than I would if i were working full time - he’s already been through school) but if that were the case, why would he be willing to quit his job?

And like I said. I have no issue with working. I’m honestly looking forward to having some time out of the house. But he’s pushing me to try and cram as many hours into those three days as I possibly can. He wants me to work 3 15 hour shifts in a row. Which, if we needed the money, I would have zero issue doing it. But I guess I just don’t understand why he’s pushing me to work so much when we don’t even need the extra money? The other 4 days of the week, I’ll be doing all of the care for our daughter and doing housework and three days a week he wants me working 15 hour shifts. That’s more than he works in his work week, and he doesn’t do any housework.

Am I overreacting? Or is this a reason to be upset? Any time I try to tell him it bothers me, he acts like I’m being lazy and just don’t want to work.