Am I being bitter?

So my birthday is coming up, I never do anything but I made it a point to do something this year. It sucks when I’m the only one planning my birthday and my boyfriend isn’t being involved. I just want some type of romantic gesture..... I want him to wanna take me some place, to wanna plan it, to plan surprises..... but he’s just not like that. Our relationship lacks romance. I just want a taste of it for a weekend :(