Some of you may have seen my post on Saturday about my husband who left to get us pizza, took way longer than expected, didn't answer his phone and got his friend to phone me to ask if he could have a drink with them.

We had our fight about this (about the lack of communication, getting his friend to phone me) and moved on from it. He asked me why am I so insecure about him going out, told me he needs time for himself every now and again and that he loves me and comes home to me ultimately. I said it hurts that his "time alone" actually means time with his friends and not with me (considering we never do anything) but I left it at that. We had a nice day yesterday.

I checked his messages and saw he specifically asked to meet his friend at the pub while he was fetching the pizza, it wasn't by accident that he met him there. Whatever, I'll let that go.

This morning though, a friend I hadn't seen in a long time messaged me and said she saw my husband and his friend at the bar next door with two women.

I don't even know what to say about this. I don't want to bother him at work because I'm financially dependant on him at the moment because of COVID and don't want to do anything to distract him, but I'm very upset about this. I don't know if they just happened to meet them there or if he's cheating or what.

And I'm upset he made it seem like I'm insecure about nothing, in the meantime he's busy doing things like this.

I don't even know how to handle this. I'm just grateful that I am at home alone and can cry all day about it.

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Ah some of you are funny. I'm not controlling. I was angry because I had seen my husband for a whole hour on Saturday, I thought we were going to have a nice Saturday pizza evening and I could NOT get hold of my husband for almost an HOUR when he was just supposed to be getting pizza five minutes away, then he gets his friend to phone me and put me on the spot.

I have no problem with my husband having female friends, only I know that he doesn't have any that he hangs out with. So who these girls were, I don't know. He also FAILED to mention he had "run" into anyone else, and he failed to mention he was at the bar next door.

So in total, he lied about where he went, who he was with, and what his real intensions were when getting the pizza but for some reason, you guys think I'M the bad one?