Me and my boyfriend gave been together 2 years and we weren't trying to get pregnant, but it happened. I was excited. When I told my boyfriend he was super excited and picked me up an kissed me. I went to tell my mom is person. Her face dropped, and she said, I don't really believe in that. At first I thought she was talking about having a baby before marriage, then she said this "I just think blacks should have kids with their own race". I have never lost so much respect for my mother until then. I started crying and asked how could she say that. She said " I'm not racist, but I just don't see how the baby would fit in our family, which is why I thought dating him was only gonna end badly". I told my mom fuck you and never talk to me again. You don't have to say how disrespectful that was. I already know. I didn't even tell my boyfriend because I know it'll hurt him.