So I have reached a dilemma... I am 11 days post partum since my c-section delivery and I REALLY want to have sex 🙈🥴

I know it's wise to wait to be cleared by a doctor but I just really want to have sex right now and have wanted to for 3 days (stupid hormones).

((Gonna get a little tmi here but))

It sucks when i "help" my husband (because why make him wait because I have to 🤷🏻‍♀️) because I can't do anything about certain situations 😅🥴

Physically I feel fine. My incision site is healing, it doesn't hurt but Is a little tender if you touch it but it isn't painful and I feel physically fine but I know it takes a little longer for the inside to heal than the outside and that thought along with the fear of getting pregnant again too soon scares me (I don't have birth control yet and we don't have condoms and it may be a little tmi but I don't like the pull out method 🤷🏻‍♀️) so I have to wait.

My next appointment will make 3 weeks and 1 day post partum and I may ask my ob (as awkward as it may be) if I can resume sexual activity again because your girl is dying. I'm even afraid to handle things myself because I'm scared I will bleed to death or something 😅😅

My hormones are driving me crazy and it's taking everything in me not to attempt sex right now 😩

How long did you wait? (I know some women do it whenever they feel comfortable and ready but I'm curious)