Lions, Tigers & Fuck boys.

Morgan
Okay ladies when you are talking to a guy when do you think it is the right time to have sex?  Or what is your timeline, expectations rules for when you think you should have sex. Do you wait until the relationship is official? Or do you just wait for the right time? 
I am not a Virgin and have had my fair share of hook ups, relationships and so on but now I'm finding it hard to establish if a guy is just trying to get laid or is really interested. 
My struggle here is that it is always the right time for a man... And most men that i have been meeting want everything that comes with a relationship like sex, affection, love etc. with out putting a label on it or making the relationship "real". "Real" meaning being committed to each other and only each other. 
Please share opinions, stories, everything!!!