The Pill

So ladies I am 31 been with my husband since we was 14 we have had 3 children and don't plan on having anymore so I have not been on the pill since having my last baby he's now 20 months we don't use anything just the good old pull out method my doctor originally took me off the pill as I was having problems with it and I noticed it also killed my sex drive but pulling out is just no fun is there anything else that won't kill my sex drive that I can use also anyone with kids how do you find the time I have 3 children two have ASD and sensory needs they are my two older children they can be awake until 1-2am and by that time.i am so tired as then the baby has me awake early me and the husband really need some us time sometimes one of the kids might stay at there nans of a weekend but my toddler is just too much for there nan too handle he is also still in our room as we don't have a masive house