Do your families or friends know that you are TTC?  I am very close with my parents and I three younger sisters but have not told them we are trying. Part of me feels like that puts more pressure on things. On the other hand    they could probably really support me. Another issue is that I am quite a bit overweight (5'7'' 230) which I am afraid is hurting my fertility chances and the rest of my family is INSANELY healthy! I know they may be concerned about me trying and I am not sure if I am ready to hear that. Anyway- have you girls told people in your lives???