I just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Samantha and I'm not yet TTC (will start in February).  Hubby and I are very involved in church, small groups, friends, and family, and hubby isn't excited about having kids. He'll make a great dad, and he cares so much about following Christ, and for me, that he won't be resentful, but it's not a personal desire of his. He's realistic about the change it would mean to our involvement in ministry, and the sacrifices we will have to make. I know he'll grow into it, and I think he's already mentally preparing himself for the change, but I would love prayer for God to work in his heart a greater desire for it.