What do you value in a relationship romantically or sexually?

I’ve been in this new relationship for the past 6 months and we’ve been living together for almost 3 months now.

We’re both 24 years old and both have submissive personalities with similar experiences with anxiety and depression.

I’ve only have one serious relationship that lasted 4.5 years before I broke it off and it’s been 2 years since then.

My current boyfriend is extremely nice to me and treats me lovingly which is amazing don’t get me wrong but I’m not very attracted to another submissive types.

Sexually I’m attracted to more dominant personalities and romantically to someone who is artistically creative or very imaginative.

He’s very almost minimalistic in a few ways and values things a little differently than I do. For example, our apartment is about 95% my choice of decorations and necessities even though I ask him all the time his opinion and thoughts. He just seems to be okay with anything I choose or want to do.

I’m seeing more differences that are not benefiting the relationship but yet I feel stable where I’m at in life.

If I’m being honest, I just feel like I might have gone too fast with this guy and he’s not the one for me. If I break up with him I just want to do me for awhile.

How should I bring this up to him and is there ever a better time to tell him?