I'm not the complaining type of person but I'm 23 and I have a 8month old baby and I just feel...done. My husband won't ever let me have a break, even when I'm showering he's standing there with the baby, when I have fever he won't get up in the morning and change her poopy nappy (he will first agree and then call me 10 times). I breastfeeding her around 5 times a night still, I put her for all her naps and have to stay there with her , I do all the cooking & cleaning & laundry. He works around 1-2h a day (from home ) and I give him that time. He will hold her whilst I cook for all of us and while I shower but that's about it , and even then she will cry because he is never present with her. He keeps saying until she's 1 year old I am the primary care giver and that she only wants me which is kind of true but I feel like I can't ever have a break and according to my husband it's making me bitter & resentful and I don't want to be that kind of person. I tried involving him with household chores but he just can't even fry an egg, he ruined our clothes and he can't clean. He only does grocery shopping (thank God for that though). And our baby is very fussy as I was suffering from depression during pregnancy. She cries often , demands a lot of attention, always has to be close or held and it's not getting any better. It's driving me insane. Any advice would be highly appreciated xx