My baby is 15 months and her cousin 2 years old. Their grandmother tries to get them together whenever she can. My husband has made it clear that he doesn't want that. He doesn't get along with his sister and they both have their history being close to their cousins and having a fallout. We got a picture of them together and my baby being squashed almost about to cry. And today I found out there was a video that got deleted because my baby got kicked and pushed by her cousin. Even though I don't find this so bad, if she were in daycare these things happen. My husband is concerned and upset that he doesn't want the cousins to get together anymore unless we are present. He says as long as his niece is around our baby has no business being at Grandma's, she's not being looked after properly. What do you guys think? Is this a big deal?