So my husband told me today that it was an off day. He told me he's been having a repeat of a dream 5 plus times in the past month span. Now with that being said I already knew what was up..It was about a girl he knew back in the day... My ex broke up with me 3 times due to dreams he had and we didn't work out. When my husband and I were just dating he broke up with me once bc in a dream he was happy with another girl and I know dreams can make you feel weird but it's insane how two of my relationships have been negativity impacted by dreams.... So just now my husband randomly asked if I was bored in our relationship.. he said he feels like I've felt that way and I said no I mean all relationships go through this. Just barely over a month ago was amazing we had a great sex life and we communicated well... Earlier he said of course I wouldn't act on a stupid dream well just now he was like well what would you do if we ended up not being together?.. I am trying to stay calm I am trying to be strong but I know he's not in love me anymore he may love me as in care about me but he isn't into me anymore. I've been struggling with mental health issues and it has been bad the past few weeks so he has to deal with that too unfortunately and all I want is for him to be happy so though I know this could be a rough patch I also feel that he may not want to go through it. We are both young and have been married for over three years now and together for almost five years. He is all I know really and without him I would be in a homeless shelter bc I haven't been working through the pandemic. We have 9 pets and I asked what he would do with them if I couldn't take them and he said to just give them away and go trucking with his dad. We still need to talk about more things he is just the type to bottle things up so it's hard getting things out of him..... I feel so stuck and confused and idk how to feel or what to do honestly.

Update. As I was typing this he is on the phone with a family friend saying the reason why he drinks every night is bc he's married and has all these animals blah blah blah as a joke and I know him... He's not joking.