Not follow any fashion trends...the thing is he wants me to be like the women he sees in an office or in movies and he thinks I need to dress like this 24/7! Don't get me wrong I do dress up in the bedroom..stockings, suspenders and all that but do I constantly have to look sexy all the time! He did say the other night he barely sees me as a woman because I don't dress like one! It does get on my nerves and I'm not gonna change who I am for any man but I need advice on what to say if he brings it up again?!