Why do I feel like this?!

Question

Is it normal to be scared that your new baby won’t be as perfect / amazing as your first? I love my son so much and I’m always in awe of him everyday. I keep having feelings that my new baby won’t hit his milestones or be as easy as my first. I feel guilty for having these thoughts but I can’t help it. I want to love him like I love
My son but I’m worried I wont. Am I bad mom ? 😭

Answer

This was a huge worry of mine when considering having a second child. My daughter is my whole world and I couldn’t imagine loving anyone else the way I love her. But something has just kind of clicked in me and I get that it will be a different type of love and bond. It doesn’t mean you will love your second any less, just differently and that’s ok. I think it’s completely normal to have these doubts, life is about to change forever and that’s kind of scary but it will be ok, just one day at a time.

Answer

I was thinking that my 2nd was going to be harder because the 1st was so good she is just a little gassyer and After I got to know her little cry that meens she needs to be burped it has been as easy as my first

Answer

I was worried my second would be opposite my son and it was truth unfortunately. I struggle everyday to not hate life.

Why do I feel like this?!

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