I feel crappy now :(

So my daughter will be 7 months old tomorrow and I took her to get her ears pierced today. As her mother I decided it would be easier to do it right now instead of when she’s a toddler or dealing with the panic, I was 13 when I got mine because my parents made me earn it and it sucked.Idk whatever I just wanted to do and I’ve never heard of a girl saying she doesn’t want her ears pierced and let’s be honest if she doesn’t want them when she’s older then she doesn’t have to wear them.

Anyway, I got some hard core judgement from my family. They are pretty reserved. My mom and aunts pierced their own ears while my grandparents were on vacation...when they were almost 18 because my grandmother forbid it! But now they’re all being judgey and it sucks. What’s the big deal? Does it make me a shit mom? Trying to not let it bother me but it is hard.

When did you pierce your daughters ears? Did you wait? Did you do it early like me?

Spare me your judgement if you have nothing good to say obviously I am getting enough of that.