Hey ladies! I need advice on how to be okay with having my ex get some custody. I know it's selfish of me, but he lives at home with his mom, his mom hates me & will talk crap about me to my child, and his mom is going to end up taking care of it for him. I don't feel comfortable with it at all.. but I want my child to be around its father. I wish I could be selfish and keep my baby to myself, but I know what it's like to have single parents and I don't want my child to suffer. how to I handle it? what can I do to make it easier on me?