How far past your due date did you go?

I’m 40 +4 today and was only 1cm dilated and not effaced. Baby girl is still high. The dr was super insistent on inducing at 41 and I’m Leary about it and wanting to cancel. I’ve also seen 4 different drs that last 4 weeks 🙄 super annoying. It’s my first baby and know it’s common. My health has been fine and so has baby girls. I want her to come on her own so long as everything with both of us is okay.