For anyone who is dealing with a bad startle reflex that's causing baby to wake himself or is transitioning baby out of a swaddle, check out the Baby Merlin Magic Sleep Suit. My son has a crazy startle reflex that constantly wakes him and I've been trying to figure out how to help him. He never took to a swaddle so that was out. I found this sleep suit on Amazon, read every review, and bought one...it is a miracle! My son is sleeping like a champ now, and it's so thick and warm so he's nice and cozy during these cold nights. I can't recommend this more!