I don't want to be that bummer person but I'm 12 weeks, 5 days after losing a baby at 5 months. November 12 was my 5 year wedding anniversary. I have a 3 year old son. Today my husband just came out and told me he's done. He doesn't have patience for me and the kids. He's leaving me. I feel so blindsided. I don't know how I'm going to do this on my own. I've been a stay at home mom for almost four years.  I really don't know what I'm going to do.