What would you do?

On thé 15th, my friend’s husband tested positive for Covid. It was pretty mild and he only had symptoms a few days. She started to have symptoms a few days later? She changes her story a lot, so I’m not really sure when her symptoms Started or if she had it at all. While he was symptomatic, she had him caring for the children, as she was too depressed over quarantine to leave bed.

I am pregnant and have an 18 month old. I am not afraid of dying from Covid, but I do like to avoid illness. If we caught it, it would be very disruptive to our lives and my pregnancy.

We miss them, and we want to hang out, but I’m not sure when it’s safe. She is really pushing me to hang out soon. Our kids are toddlers and they share toys. I worry her kiddos could be a symptomatic carriers and pass it to us.

She’s been out running around for the past week and a half. She has been hanging out with other friends. I feel like if I keep trying to wait, she might be offended.

My daughter’s pediatrician said we should wait 3 weeks after he last person shows symptoms. That way, the virus should be killed off naturally on surfaces at that point. My OB has said I’m not at any increased risk of death from Covid, but have a higher chance of being on a ventilator due to pregnancy.

What would you do?🤦‍♀️

This would have been easier if she had been honest and more careful