Bad sex...

When I first started seeing my bf he couldn't make me cum but we would have 3 rounds of sex which pleased me enough (not fully satisfied)... but now... we only have one round and he cums within minutes 😪

I love him and I know he loves me very much but I can't live like this.. I do lots of foreplay for him but he doesn't with me.. he's never been one to go down but he does once in a while (for seconds)... I have a high sex drive and I just don't know what to do... I have been using my vibrator when he's not here but he's finds it insulting if I want to use it with him. I've bought durex orgasm gel... but it doesn't really help... he's not patient enough and when he tries to be I feel pressured and can't cum...

I went from having the best sex ever with my ex to this... I just don't know what to do...

Advice pleaseeeeee I'm desperate! Believe me!

Thanks ladies

Posting anonymous because I'm embarrassed