Mother in law & Tattoo.

So basically I brought up the idea of getting my daughter tattooed on me as my first tattoo. My mother absolutely loves tattoos so she’s very supportive. My soon to be mother in law looked at me and said “that’s so stupid why would you do that?” My reply was “Well I love tattoos & my daughter means everything to me so why the fuck not?”😂 she just looked at me and said “Well you’re a mom now, don’t you think you should of gotten a tattoo before you had kids. You need to be a good responsible parent and spend that money on your daughter” now all I’m doing is contemplating if I should or not. She made me feel like a shitty mom but the whole reason why I was getting it was for my daughter. Any opinions?