Hello! Having a debate in my mind to weather try for a 2nd baby next year or just be a 1 and done family. Husband is an only child and when we spoke about it he said he was done. I was thinking about tying my tubes but he doesn't want me to (and doesn't want to get a vasectomy either).

He claims having another baby for the sake of giving "company" to our 1st is not a good enough logical reason. Also our son is literally the best baby ever, great sleeper, no fuss and always happy( he is turning 2 in December). "So why repair something is not broken?" Hubby's favorite line lol

So I thought ok I guess we are done. Now he tells me it's actually up to me because I am currently a Stay at Home mom and I am the one doing the work. He works 7 days a week and would probably remain the same if we have another one (which we use to fight about sometimes because we don't see him and I would complain that he doesn't spend enough of his little window of time with our son).

I have help from my parents which visit every 2 weeks and I am lucky and spoiled for that, but am I ready? When I am alone all week with my son I wonder if I can actually do this with 2? I can't rely on help from my parents...

What was the biggest reason you all went from 1 to 2 kids and if it wasn't an accident what was your original plan?

Thank you if you made it this far!