Online dating vs reality

Soooo due to the pandemic ya girl decided to download a dating app.

Since receiving advice to “date until you find what you like”, I have been doing just that.

On Thursday I felt spontaneous and decided to meet up with a guy who is 70 miles away from me. There’s not really a nice mid way point, so we decided that we’ll alternative the visits. I came down and he’ll come to me next time and so on.

We met up yesterday and even though it’s early days I really really like him. We have the same birthdays and are so alike, to the point it’s scary. He understands my love languages and vice versa.

My only hiccup is that things got heated and we had sex but decided to stop half way. We are both Christians (in fact his Dad is a pastor)! We understand the importance of waiting til marriage but I messed up. He saw the guilt of my face, comforted me and said he “understands”.

It’s hard to date in this pandemic, hence why we got a hotel room, so there was a build up of sexual tension but are there any tips for avoiding this from happening next time?

On a brighter note, there is hope out there for us beautiful single women. Keep working on yourself, remain hopeful and positive!