Am I wrong? Please don’t judge

Question

My girls father is a narcissist. I’m saying like straight crazy ass psycho. He has done everything in the book that have put me and my girls in danger but yet makes it MY fault for all of his actions. Some things he has done are..
- When I was 9 mo w/ my first, took all of her clothes I bought her and held them hostage because I wanted to stay with my sister to feel more comfortable ... when he refused to give the clothes back, he shoot a gun in the air , wanting to shoot it at me intentionally 
-He broke my car window, better yet the window on the passenger side , the side my first born was sitting on. 
-He has hit me so hard I gotten a concussion 
-He came to my house, ripped all of my daughters clothes out the closet and proceed to throw stuff at me while I was holding my newborn (2nd baby) 
He has an anger problem and I swear it doesn’t take even a tad bit to make him upset, not that I do it INTERNALLY!!  But I’ve been trying to leave for the longest. He doesn’t let me! He makes my life so miserable and makes it seem like all the things he does is my fault! I never held a gun to his head and made him do the stuff he has. He also makes it seem like I keep him from his kids when HE is the one that does when he doesn’t make a safe environment for them 😪 any advice? Please don’t judge 
￼

Answer

Please contact your local family violence organisation for help and advice. They can help you with so many different things- safety planning, making a plan to leave, legal advice, help with temporary accommodation if needed, counselling support, etc. if you google ‘family violence help’ + the name of your city, state or country it should come up with some organisations.

Answer

I’m assuming after each of these incidents you called the police right? So you could use those reports to get a restraining order? That’d only be logical.