Always Ripping?!

So when me and my husband have sex he always rips me! We aren't being really rough and we are plenty lubricated. It's mainly everytime he bends me over the bed. Anyone know ways to prevent this from happening? If I'm on him or in missionary, no problems but it seems like every time he bends me over I tear a little and then its like I can't have sex for a few days or of course I'm a little sore. HELP!!! I circled an idea are of where I tear.