Husband frustrations

My husband is stuck on the mind set of not trying for a baby but not preventing it fully either. I’ve used FAM for about 3 years now so I know where I’m at in my cycle all the time, some month I’ll tell him I’m fertile and he’ll want to pull out (I let him and do not force anything) while other months he’s just like whatever. He says a child wouldn’t be ideal right now (our schedules are crazy with working opposite shifts and we have a 2 year old to balance with it) but he’d be happy either way. I’m just unsure where we stand and what I should be doing or if I should stay jusy going with the flow