Is it me or alot of people has been rude?

Come on ladys we all are adults here. Why must we belittle and bash one another over someone posting there BFP?! We all on here TTC, we should support eachother!! Yet were rude to one another. Everyone has there own personal problems of TTC, that doest mean look down on someone. Everybody not going to get a BFP on the first try, so atleast try to be nice. Lets not be jealous geesh!!!