I just got married exactly 2 weeks ago. We were engaged for over a year and i had my bridesmaids picked out by the first month of being engaged.

I had 2 maid of honors my mom and my bestfriend then i had 2 bridesmaids my cousin and close coworker. I was so happy to have them be a part of my special day and paid for their bouquets eventho ik most brides make them pay for it. I spent close to $120 each bridesmaid between their bridesmaids gifts robes and bouquets.

I also paid for my bestfriend hair makeup and dress bc shes a stay at home mom and her fiance (best man) didnt feel like she needed any hair makeup nail spa treatments so she practically just needed to show up to the wedding everthing for her was paid for. I even paid for my close coworkers hair to be styled for the wedding. Well I noticed my bestfriend and close coworker didnt get my husband or I a wedding gift not even just a card.

Same with the groomsmen. He had 2 best men his dad and bestfriend and 2 groomsmen a cousin and an old coworker. Well his bestfriend and old coworker didnt get us anything either not even just a card and my hubby paid about $100 on each man including paying for their bouteniers and even helping out his old coworker with paying for his tux so he could actually be in the wedding.

His bestfriend and mine are a couple and weve known them over 10 years we wouldve thought they wouldve gave us atleast a card. We made our wedding with an open bar and did not charge anyone for dinner. We wanted everyone to enjoy themselves and not have to worry about paying.

Is it just us or would you be upset with yur bridal party aswell. Like i can understand guests not bringing a gift eventho its considered frowned upon but exactly half of your own bridal party!? C'mon..

What would you do