Tw possible . Mention of loss

My wife rehomed a puppy to a friend of hers 24 hours later the friend cancelled her payment and wouldn’t respond to messages . Finally she resent it . (After arguing for hours about it) Long story short same friend asked to be our baby god mother . So many times !! she messaged my wife and also posted she hopes your wife loses the baby so I can have my gf fight her , after knowing I had a previous premature labor . I’m upset at 21 weeks I haven’t told anyone besides our parents and my spouse told her . I haven’t even told my friends. I told my wife that she gave off bad vibes she argues with everyone and now my spouse has been added to the list .