EBF baby help

My baby is EBF. She cries and there’s no such thing as cry it out bc she will out do you . I’m the only one that can feed her and she won’t take a bottle from me and I understand why she can smell me etc . I want to go back to work ! I need advice please. No one can handle her longer than 5 minutes and I’m not exaggerating. She cries and cries. I’m trying to work on a schedule tomorrow I need suggestions. I’m losing my mind and can’t get anything done . I’m to blame I know Caz she’s attached to my hip .but she’s being through a lot of changing and moving for 4 months . She hasn’t been around my family since she was a newborn now I live with them . My mind will be babysitting so I need to get my baby to be babysittable lol