I'm suffering from depression and anxiety especially today... My husband is a new dad, I have 3 kids but he has none.... He is not doing a good job on picking up on taking care of the baby... I caught him falling asleep holding the baby with a bottle in our babies mouth ... I saw him getting on our bed when our baby was laying on our bed and his knee went into our babies leg accidentally..(luckily he didn't do it too hard) ... He also is taking too long changing our babies diaper , I understand he needs some time to catch on but when he's changing our baby he can at least cover him with a blanket while he's getting diaper ready... I also feel he can get the diaper and wipes ready before he starts to change him... I've tried telling him my feelings about all of this but he doesn't seem to think it's a big deal.... What can I do? Should I just start doing all of our babies care myself since he's not listening?