So with any pregnancy comes sort of bump.  mine this time is that I've had no energy watsoever and am lucky if something doesn't trigger vomitting. Had to quit work cuz I always felt like I was gonna pass out after 1or2hrs. Of course now we're behind on bills and some of it families since their getting work is inconsistent. My landlady basically told me that I need to muster up the energy to do something to make money because staying in bed all day isn't good for me n I need to cut expenses (would love to cut out my student loans bt idk if the gov would allow that) welfare sux because my husband makes too much technically (because they don't count loans or that one time ur outta work for three weeks as a delivery driver since ur car got totaled n u had to get a new one etc. sorry this is so long but I just need to vent cuz it pisses me off when ppl make snap judgements without listening to everything or compare what they did 50yrs ago wen cost of living was lower, towns were smaller so you could get by without a car n not worry about being an hr late for a job that's 30min away n getting a job didn't require 3yrs of experience at an entry position or some bs like that. Of course she suggests job alternatives which most wouldn't work unless you had years to implement them or had some sort of advanced degree or certification cuz these days, you can't just babysit a strangers kid unless you've had some certification. The other suggestion she made just made me think if I was unable to stay at my old job, what makes it possible to get a new job doing somethin even more strenuous