I need some advice, I’m in a long distance relationship. We had plans for me to go visit him for thanksgiving but now that’s not an option because I now can’t get the time off of work. So we were gonna just wait till he comes home for Christmas. Except now he changed his mind and is gonna come home for New Years instead. Honestly I’m upset that everything is not going how we had planned. I was looking forward to spending our first holiday together and that isn’t happening, then I was excited to have him with me for Christmas and be able to spend time with each other’s families. How do I deal with the alone feeling I’m already feeling that just magnifies when I’m alone with my family. I knew this was gonna be hard but I didn’t realize how hard it was really gonna be.