Newly divorced(in process)

I made the very hard choice to divorce my husband of 3 years.

I am young. I feel like I’ve known it’s been wrong the whole time and I’ve tried to convince myself but finally I decided to make the choice for myself and do what I believe will make me happy.

We are in the middle of it, it’s been civil.

But I need tips on how people usually deal with these things

I just got an apartment

I am on my own

Just started a new job in a new city after being at my old job for 5 years

I am feeling defeated and alone.

I do not have any super close friends to lean on without feeling needy. (I’m always the first to reach out)

I just need advice on how people don’t just go crazy...